COMPLIMENTS OF WM. M. McLAURY, M. D., 244 W. 42d St., N, Y. & OCIAL XX ' . inm nilnrii Jr**iT#fllrA ir’ marriage. Maudsley, in “Body and Mind,” says, Although wom- en bear sexual excesses better than men do, yet they suffer more then men by the entire deprivation of sexual intercourse. Sexual starvation is a condition in which either men or women may- reach a state when they will sacrifice everything dear in life to them to appease thatappetite—money, property, friends, family,rep- utation and even the hope of eternal bliss. To prevent or appease this morbid craving of a natural appetite it is only necessary that the sexes should commingle without too much restraint by convers- ing, singing, dancing, or even kissing in a decent, orderly man- ner; but too much law and rigor in things that pertain to the love nature is worse than none at all, as we all know forbidden fruit eagerly sought. As a dignified matron once expressed it, If it was a sin to take a drink of water, what a luxury that would be. Byron says, “Love is of man’s life a thing apart; ’tis woman’s whole existence.” I think statistics show that there are more women in insane asylums to-day from some perversion of the love nature, or sexual aberration, than all other causes put together. Some of the eminent alienests present to-night may correct this statement if I am wrong. Marriages does not invariably correct abuses of the love nature. I know intelligent men and women who have married and tortured each other all through life, not 13 that they were implacably wicked, or even indifferent to each other’s welfare, but simply that they did not know how to love each other harmoniously. There is nothing in the world that people are suffering so much for as for a want of knowledge on this one subject. As an old doctor, now deceased, once expressed it to mein conversation on this subject: People suffering, suffer- ing and dying through ignorance, and no one to teach them. There is no stimulus accessible to our race so potent for good> when naturally and healthfully utilized, or for evil when perverted and abused. The physiology of the whole passion of love has never yet been written. That it generates force and increases mental and physical power is undoubted. 1 Not only is it capable of germinating a new individual, but, wisely developed and exer- cised within strict limits, it may to an almost unlimited extent in- crease the mental and physical powers of the individual.* In the present state of society and social ethics, woman is by far a greater sufferer from the evils afflicting society than man- And woman, being more patient, more conscientious, more re- ligious, as well as more emotional and intuitional, can exert a greater moral force than her physically stronger brother, man. Now, inasmuch as man has been enacting and enforcing laws to suppress evils of this character, and all his efforts have proved futile or practically so, I ask, Would it not at this stage ot human progress be wise to have the advice and co-operation of woman in the questions affecting the morals of the community—temper- ance, education, heredity and the science of life ? Women are largely on the right side on this important question of the social evil, as on all questions involving the morals of society. We might give woman a chance by extending her sphere of action, that her influence may be felt politically, that she might bring order out ot confusion. Instead of being soiled by the corrupt slough in which the politicians of to-day are wallowing, her pres- ence and influence would surely purify the filthy pool. Then, instead of holding caucuses in liquor saloons and low places of *Kee The Senses—Five, or Seven? by Wm. M. McLaury, M. D., 1884. 14 resort they would be held in churches and hotel parlors or pri- vate residences, where no lady need be afraid or ashamed to re- sort, and talk easily and freely on such subjects as pertain to the public welfare, which is quite as important to her as it is to the masculine animal. Instead ot lowering women by participating in the'political arena it would undoubtedly elevate man. We seem to be on the verge of a moral and social revolution, and as present and past social laws are being changed and evaded, alarm and panic is created in the minds of conservative observers; but to those who see the laws of the past as having served their purpose and becoming useless and obsolete, those whom we term the vanguard of the race for progress are looking hopefully into the future. Tney see and know that there is suf- ficient intellectual and moral force in the community to prevent anarchy, and quite sufficient constructive energy to build up, in place ot the ruins and decay of present and past institutions, oth- ers that will far more completely comply with the health re- quirements of the people of this and coming generations. From my own experience and observation I believe that one man and one woman, physically and mentally adapted to each other, living harmoniously and intelligently, rearing children in love, happiness and usefulness, represent to us the very highest type of human happiness. The average family is not this, and our present social ethics do not produce this; instead we seem to be drifting farther from it. It is not the poor and ignorant alone that suffer through domestic infelicity, but equally the learned and intelligent classes. Those high in Church and State figure in courts of law as transgressors against the present standard of ethics in the family. Mr. Kitchell touches the keynote ot solving this problem where he says women is the most potent factor, and she must teach and be taught. Church and State laws have been of but little avail, because they have not recognized the God law; the natural law. You may as well legislate against the law of gravitation as against the law of sex. But reasonable instruction 15 of honest, earnest men and women will do more to reform the abuses of society than written law of whatever name or kind. Cleanliness of mind and body will prevent disease and physical weakness by sexual love. Mr. Kitrfiell truly says: Not through written laws, but through noble thoughts and aspirations of men and women are we to look for its cure—creating a correct public sentiment, and visiting punishment on offenders of public decency with equal severity without regard to their sex. I would like to have something to say in reference to the sad ravages to the health of victims of venereal disease, but my time will not permit, and will merely reter to the admirable paper by Dr. Gihon, delivered in this room on April 5th, 1882. (The subject was further discussed by Drs. Spitzka, Brill and Harwood, W. H. H. Russell, Esq., and others; the discussion being closed at a late hour by Charles H. Kitchell, Esq.)